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Meal Planning.

by Lauryn on February 6, 2013 in From the Kitchen,Personal

This has been a long requested post!  I really love making food for family and friends and because I also love organizing, meal planning is something else I enjoy!  Some of my friends and a few readers have asked for a post on how I meal plan.  I hemmed and hawed over this post.  How to write it, how to make it clear this is what works FOR US, how to not make other people out there feel like failures because they hate meal planning, etc…  Let me make it very clear: this is what I enjoy.  I love organizing.  I like cooking.  It is completely okay if you dont.  Dont beat yourself up.  Dont feel guilty about it.  Add it to your list of things you dont do, and forget about it.  Also, this is just how WE do it.  There are so many ways out there to figure out meals.  This is not a be all end all type of post. :-)

Let’s get started!

I use these nifty pads that I have found at Pier One but have seen lots of places to make a grocery list.  We go once a week on average.  I really like fresh salad and I dont like going to the store every day, so once a week is a good amount of time for us.  We also happen to only be a 25 minute drive from our favorite store.  Im sure I would go less often if I lived in a more rural area.

Next I grab a cook book or two.  My favorite cook books of ALL TIME are by Southern Living.  Each year they publish a book with all the recipes from all the monthly magazines.  I like SL because the recipe’s are all delicious, not everything is required to be made from scratch, and the books are organized super well.  The index’s in the back are lifesavers.  Most cook books are organized by month. This makes eating seasonly, or somewhat seasonally, very easy.  Whatever month it is, flip to the month before or after and peruse.   I like other books too, but I cook mostly out of Southern Living.

Making new recipes is a really fun adventure for me, so I make a goal to try 3 new recipes a week.  Sometimes it doesn’t happen that way, but I try.  I also always ask Jared if he is in the mood for anything.  Sometimes he isn’t and leaves it up to me, but he also mentions tacos, chili, shepherd’s pie, etc… often.  We have a good rotation of staples if I am stumped, or I dont feel like trying.

I make 4 meals a week.  We have leftovers 2 days a week.  We have pizza or a pre-made frozen meal from Trader Joe’s once a week. We like leftovers.  If you don’t, be sure to adjust your recipe measurements and shop accordingly.

I go through the books and pick 2-4 recipes.  Depending on how many I pick, I fill in with staple meals.  As I am picking recipes I am also making the grocery list.  I mark off whatever we dont have.  What’s nice about the little pads is that you can mark off as you run out of things throughout the week as well.

Here is what we had this week:

  • Friday: Stuffed Peppers from Big Night In
  • Saturday: Crock Pot Sour Cream Ranch Chicken with Salads (A friend told me this recipe, I can share another time if people are interested!)
  • Sunday: SUPER BOWL!!
  • Monday: Smoky Ham and Corn Chowder with Kale from Big Night In
  • Tuesday: Leftovers
  • Wednesday: Baked Tempeh with Broccoli
  • Thursday: Leftovers

So that’s 3 new meals (Fri, Mon, Wed), 2 Leftover Days, 1 Staple Meal (Sat) and then the Superbowl (finger foods!)

I somewhat subscribe to the 1 Protein, 1 Starch, Lots of Veggies theory. I do make sure there are veggies with every meal. We mostly do sandwiches or more leftovers for lunch. For breakfast, its cereal, yogurt and granola, and green smoothies.  After I mark off what we need for dinners, I go through and mark off what we need for lunch, snacks, and breakfast.  For example: Yogurt, Spinach, Frozen Mango, Oranges, Bananas, Chips and Salsa, 2 boxes of Cereal, etc…

We only do a week at a time because plans change and I dont want food to go bad.  This process works really well for us.  Go through the cook book, pick out some recipes that sound good, as I am doing that write up the grocery list, and shop.  I’ve tried to keep it as simple as possible and as relaxed as possible.

The last thing I do is write on our white board, that is on our fridge, what we will be having each day of the week.  It looks just like the bullet list above.  I scratch out each meal when I make it. Everything goes smoothly if I make what I am supposed to each day.  And nothing goes bad. :-)

How do you meal plan?  Do you like trying new recipes, or do you hate cooking?  I’d love to hear about it!!

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Things I Don’t Do.

by Lauryn on January 14, 2013 in Personal

A friend recently shared a beautifully written essay on life scheduling.  I have been chewing on Shauna’s words ever since. It’s an excerpt from her book, Bittersweet.

Click here to read it, you wont regret it.

Things I don’t do. It sounds kind of strange, doesn’t it? But the line, “And this is what Denise told me: she said it’s not hard to decide what you want your life to be about. What’s hard, she said, is figuring out what you’re willing to give up in order to do the things you really care about…” really resonated with me. It’s truth. And, its not hard to understand. It is hard to implement.

I started to make a list of things I don’t do, here are a few…

  • Make the bed.  I never make the bed unless we have company and I refuse to feel guilty about something that isn’t important to ME.
  • Answer work emails on the weekends.  It just leads me to be anxious.  I dont need to make myself more anxious, so I took work email off my phone, and I am better for it.
  • Compare myself and my business to others.  Not everyone can shoot 35+ weddings a year, or have a closet bursting full of classic/trendy clothes, or have voluminous, thick, perfect hair.  I strive to be happy with what the Lord gives me, and to do my best with it, which means I use a lot of hair products sometimes.
  • Design my own branding/website/graphics.  Every time I try this, I cry.  So I have just accepted that I will always have to save up and pay for these things.  I am not a designer, and it doesn’t make me any less of a good business person because of it.
  • Get dressed everyday.  Being dressed doesn’t help me be more productive, so why dirty more clothes?  I work just as efficiently in my pajamas.

What do you NOT do, in order to do the things you DO want to do?  I’d love to hear.  Im sure my list will expand exponentially when we have kids one day!

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Help Portrait.

by Lauryn on January 11, 2013 in Business,Personal,Portraits

Back in December I participated in an event called Help Portrait. Have you heard of it? Probably not unless you are a photographer, but essentially it is this:

1. Find a Group of People in Need. (People who would not have the opportunity to pay for pictures of themselves and their family members.)

2. Take their picture and make them feel awesome and valuable. (The most important part.)

3. Print their picture(s).

4. Give them to them, for free. (2nd most important part.)

Well, we did this, and it was so great.  It really reminded me that pictures are so special to people.  And that having your picture made makes you feel worth something.  And having a picture of someone important to you is irreplaceable.  Our day was incredible.

Our amazing friend James put together a video… Check it out!

http://vimeo.com/lovestories/helpportraitrva

So! Here are the Highs and Lows for the week!

Highs:

  • Seeing the Help Portrait video! I love it so much!!
  • Playing with my planner.
  • Hanging with the Hubs today!

Lows:

  • The silly temperature for this weekend.  What. The. Heck.
  • Jared started taking some night classes this week and I am beyond bored/lonely at home while he is gone.  Boo.

What about you?? Are you happy about the weather?  Do you like having the house all to yourself?

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I Resolve.

by Lauryn on January 9, 2013 in Personal

I saw this list of Resolves over on Dinner: A Love Story, and loved it.  So I thought I would share my personal goals this way.

What I resolve to do more of in 2013:
Read. Rest. Wake up in the morning. Bible reading. Exercise 3 times a week, although this always seems to be on my list, it would be nice to make it a habit this year. Eat Tofu. Be more present, resulting in being more thankful. Dance, and by that I mean awesome dancing with awesome moves. Beef up my Dance Pandora station. Be a more graceFULL person. I can be so judgemental, I need to be more full of Grace because God has been full of Grace towards me. Encourage Jared more. Shower.

What I resolve to do less of:
Office work late into the evening (which I am doing RIGHT NOW.) Go to bed at midnight. Pick at the skin around my nails, worst habit I have ever formed. Spend pointless time on Facebook. Not trust God. Make excuses.

What I resolve not to say to my spouse:
“You might want to try it like this instead…” I am so bossy.

What I resolve to eat less of:
Hash browns from McDonalds.

What I resolve to learn how to cook:
Hash browns from McDonalds.

What I resolve to eat more of:
Spinach. Fruit. Tofu. Wine.

What non-required reading I resolve to attend to:
See this post. And, maybe the New York Times.

What I resolve to convince my spouse to read:
My mind.

Restaurant I want to try:
Portico. Saison. Johnson Southern. The Blue Goat. Magpie. Toast. Jerusalem.

Restaurant I want to return to:
Proper Pie. Roosevelt. Burger Bach. Stella’s. Nile.

I resolve to finally try:
Swimming? The NYT Crossword. Cleaning on a regular basis. The Dougie. Getting up on time.

I resolve to spend less money on:
McDonalds Hash browns.

I resolve to get Zen about:
The way Jared does dishes. At least they are clean.

What I resolve to accomplish professionally:
Shoot more interesting Off Camera Light. Stay Employed. Be featured in print. Start shooting families and be awesome at it.

Now, tell me some of yours!! I want to hear ‘em!

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Knoxville, TN!

by Lauryn on January 8, 2013 in Personal

I wanted to do a full Tennessee visit review, but the weather was really bad except the day we went to Knoxville!  So, here are some shots of our time there.

We had a great time walking around and exploring shops although it was FREEZING.  And, bonus (!) Catherine and Vince live there so we met up for some dinner at a really neat place!

It was a cloudy, cold day…

Finally a picture of us by a stranger that is IN FOCUS!

{Side note: Do you guys think my hair is turning brown??!!}

The way I get Jared to laugh?  I yell, “LAUGH AT ME!” until he feels so awkward that he chuckles…

I loved all the holiday decorations!

We headed to Cafe 4 where we met Cato and Vince a little early to warm up and rest from walking all day.  The upstairs was so cozy.

Our delicious dinner!  Jared had Bacon Cheeseburger Mac and Cheese and I had Shrimp and Grits with Andouille Sausage. SO YUMMY.

Love these guys!

So that was our day in Knoxville.  We really had a good time and would love to go back!  We’d definitely recommend Cafe 4 if you’re visiting, as well as Tupelo where we had a little snack mid-day!

 

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Reading in 2013.

by Lauryn on January 7, 2013 in Personal

One of my personal goals (which Ill be blogging later this week) for this coming year, is reading.  And not just leisurely reading, because I feel like that gives me an out.  I want to read 12-15 books this year, which means at least one a month.  I know some of the books I will get through faster than others, so I think being able to read through three additional books isn’t unrealistic.  For me, unrealistic goals are useless.  I firmly believe that when goals are unrealistic, it leads to more than just failing at that particular goal.  It leads to self doubt and guilt.  I dont need any more of that in my life!

Here are the books I am going to be reading through in 2013.  You can keep up with which one Im reading currently over on the sidebar!

The Very Thought of You by Rosie Alison, Mere Christianity by C.S. Lewis, The Girl Who Fell From the Sky by Durrow, The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks by Rebecca Skloot, The Gravedigger’s Daughter by Joyce Carol Oates, Gone Girl by Gillian Flynn, Olive Kitteredge by Elizabeth Strout, The Devil in the White City by Erin Larson, The Language of Flowers by Vanessa Diffenbaugh, Bird by Bird by Anne Lamott, Room by Emma Donoghue, All There Is by Dave Isay, Crucial Conversations by Kerry Patterson, The Night Circus by Erin Morgenstern, and lastly The Bible!  (Not Pictured: Gone Girl, Olive Kitteredge, Crucial Conversations and the Bible).

Have you read any of these? Thoughts on them? Im particularly excited about Crucial Conversations, Bird by Bird, and Olive Kitteredge.  Crucial Conversations appeals to me because I love analyzing and this book is all about discovering the why of how people act during conversations.  I have heard so many lovely things about Bird by Bird, so I am really excited to get into it.  And lastly, my bff Nikki has been telling me to read Olive Kitteredge for a loooooong time and I always like what she tells me to read!

What are you planning to read this year? Do you mostly like Fiction, or Non-Fiction?

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New Planner.

by Lauryn on January 3, 2013 in Business,Personal

Finding a new planner for the year is serious business.  I have tried to use my iPhone as my calendar, but I just dont like it.  I like paper, and I LOVE crossing things off.  There is nothing like it!

I was on twitter a week or so ago, and one of my favorite bloggers asked her followers for Planner recommendations.  I was so happy because I knew I could also use peoples suggestions for myself!  I immediately was drawn to one that a few people mentioned and Erin also said she was going to order it.  Success!  Multiple recommendations and it had won over one of my favorite bloggers.

Here it is!  The Day Desinger by Whitney English.  I just ordered mine, and cant wait to get it in the mail! From the website, it seems to have everything I need: full month calendars, day by day planning, and a yearly calendar overview.  It also has inspirational quotes each day which I love!

I also am really excited that it is spiral bound.  That feature is super convenient when writing on the left side of the book near the seam.  Am I right?!

So, what planner did you get for next year?  Or, do you just love your iPhone? Id love to hear!

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Holiday Season!

by Lauryn on December 21, 2012 in Personal

Next week is Christmas friends!  Can you believe it?  2012 is almost over, and I am really looking forward to this coming week.  We are headed to Tennessee!  We are spending the week with Jared’s mom and step-dad.  We have never been able to actually spend any of Christmas DAY with them in all the years I have known Jared (6 years this week!!). So, we are really happy about being able to do that this year.

So!  I will be taking next week completely off!  No blogging, no emails, no Facebook.  I will be updating Instagram though, so you can follow along here.  I have never been to TN (crossing off another 25 before 25, just a little late) and I hope we have some time to visit Knoxville or Chattanooga.  I also have high hopes of convincing everyone to go see Les Mis! Any tips on how to make this happen would be appreciated.

Ill be back here on the blog on New Year’s Day! Lots of fun things are coming up, like my favorite shots of 2012, a goal review, my favorite head shots, new client gifts, our Advent Conspiracy gifts (see last years, here),  and a TN review!

I really hope everyone reading has a warm and lovely Christmas and New Years!

…a thrill of hope
the weary world rejoices,
For yonder breaks a new and glorious morn.
Fall on your knees! O hear the angel voices!
O night divine, O night when Christ was born;
O night divine, O night,
O night Divine…

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Portraits!

by Lauryn on December 6, 2012 in Personal

FRIENDS!! We had our pictures made by our dear friend Tori last month and they are on her blog today!!  I wont even bother blogging, because I just want you to go look at them.  We love them!!

GO SEE!

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My Ideal Day.

by Lauryn on December 4, 2012 in Personal

Friends, today I want to share with you something that makes me feel very vulnerable: my ideal day.  Why is that scary?  Well, because its personal, and putting it out there makes me accountable, and goes against my very nature to watch Gilmore Girls all day, comfortably on my couch with a snoozy cat tucked into a crook of my body.  But, I finally want to share this with you.   I should also tell you that Nancy Ray and Lara Casey need the credit for this exercise in life change.

I had always known about Lara Casey’s inspirational/motivational ways since I started following her a few years ago, but I was too scared to try.  To secure on my couch with my cat to make any real change.  And so… I didnt.  Then more recently I developed a girl crush on Nancy Ray.  You know that “I basically like everything you do and wish we were best friends and that we did everything together” kind of thing?  Yeah…that.  A girl crush.  So, Im obsessing over her blog and reading post after post after post well into 2011, and I see her post about her “ideal day.”  Now, Ive seen this kind of thing before but I wasnt motivated by it.  Something about Nancy’s Ideal Day motivated me.  So, I thought about it for a few days, put it off for a few more, watched some more Gilmore Girls and finally decided to write mine down.

7:00 Wake Up

7:15 Read Bible/Drink Coffee/Pray

8:15 Walk (or maybe Run one day)

8:45 Breakfast

9:00 LGP Office Hours

12:00 Lunch/Social Media

12:30 LGP Office Hours

4:00 LGP Emails Last Call

4:30 CLOSE LGP
-Tidy Office
-Toss Trash
-Shut Down
-Close Door

5:00 House Chores

5:30 Cook Dinner

6:00 Dinner

7:00 Free Time

9:00 Bed Time Routine

10:00 Bed

Yeah, you read that right… Bed Time is 10 PM.  Ill be the first person to call myself an old lady, but there really is a reason for 10 PM.  I need 9-10 hours of sleep a night.  If left to my own devices I will go to bed around midnight each night and wake up happily at 10 AM every day of the year.  Im not catching up on sleep debt, I literally need those 9-10 hours. So, if I want to get up at 7 I have to go to bed early, old lady style or not.  Now, I know not everyday can be like this.  Life happens.  I get that, but I think that is MOST days were like this, it would be enough for me.

So here’s to life changes.  I have not done my ideal day for more than a few days straight, but I do want to keep working on it.  Maybe I will finally get it down by the New Year?

Here’s to not wasting time and getting it done! Cheers!

 {Image above from Second Shooting with Katelyn in September.}

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