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Happy Birthday Jared!

by Lauryn on May 15, 2013 in Personal

On Monday, Jared turned the ripe old age of 27.  We celebrated with friends on Friday, and by ourselves on Sunday evening.  Such is the life of wedding photographers!  Before we headed out on our surprise birthday date on Sunday, I made Jared take some pictures with me.  He did well until I turned on continuous shooting and took about 50 pictures of him, getting increasingly annoyed, in about 30 seconds.  I should make a gif… ;-)  Totally a cheesy thing to do, taking self timer pictures on our front porch, but I want pictures of us at each stage of life.  I dont want to forget the little moments.

I dont want to get too sappy, but this blog also documents our life, so I do want to publicly wish him a happy birthday!  We have been married for almost 4 years now (June 5th is coming up!) and I can honestly say I love him more now than I ever have.  Someone recently asked on a forum that I am apart of, “who does more household work, you or your spouse?”  My first instinct is to say: ME!  But, after I really thought about it for a few minutes I realized the things I do around our house pale in comparison to the things Jared does for our family.  Acts of Service is my love language, and he loves me so well and I am so thankful for him.    We both believe that love is a choice, and I am so blessed that he chooses to love me, and works hard on our marriage.  He is definitely my best friend!

Happy birthday babe!  I love you very much and thank you for continuing to love me every day!!

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Breathing Room.

by Lauryn on May 7, 2013 in Personal

Today’s post is one that I have been contemplating blogging about for a few weeks, and have finally just decided to just do it.  Im not entirely sure what was holding me back other than its a more personal part of my life, directly related to my faith, and I don’t often share that in this particular space.  But, I do want to share this with you.  Whether you believe in God or not, whether you think the bible is legitimate or not, I really believe that this topic covers a broad spectrum of people.  Christian, or not.

Our small group (gathering of people from our church who we “do life” with, meet with on a regular basis, and take care of one another) has been going through a series by North Point Ministries where Andy Stanley is a pastor.  You may have heard or him, or not.  His sermons and series are gaining more attention and I have yet to hear one that I don’t agree with wholeheartedly.  The current series we are going through is titled…

Breathing Room.

The entire series is about how we like to pack in as much as possible, check off our to do lists, and end up missing out on real life things that actually matter.  In the first sermon he quotes a Hospice nurse who has written books on her experience.  As she spends time with people who are in their last days, she would ask many of them what they would do differently or if they had any regrets.  The number one regret?  They worked too hard/too much.  She says that every single male she spoke with mentioned this.  Women did as well, but every. single. male. said that to her.

You have to come at this in a balanced way of course.  This is not an excuse to be lazy, or to say you are just going to hang out all the time.  For one, life just doesn’t work that way.  And, if you are Christian, that isn’t what God says about work.  However, God did create a sabbath.  He forced his people to stop working, and trust him.  For me, thinking about taking a day off sends me into a panicky place.  I may start sweating, start creating lists of how to catch up, and rush to my computer to “just do a couple more things.”  Can you imagine living thousands of years ago where LITERALLY if you don’t work you dont eat?  That is a different kind of panic, yes?  But, God said…rest. Take a day and rest.  Trust me to provide and rest.

If you’re not Christian, this idea of rest is still super important, which you probably already know.  Running yourself ragged is a sorry way to live life.  Its a sorry way to treat your spouse and loved ones.  Its a sorry way to treat yourself.

Everyone has limits, yes?  And, everyone’s limits are different.  Some of my friends in this industry travel all over, teach photographers multiple times a year, shoot double the weddings I do, do life things like family events, church activities, etc… and are happy in that place.  Me?  Thats not for me.  I like shooting 20 weddings a year, and taking on one to two second shooters to pour into throughout the season.  Thats about my limit as far as work goes.  Because if I added any more it would take away from the other things that are oh-so important to me: spending LOTS of quality time with our church family, our biological families, serving in our church, alone time to recharge, time to work in the yard, time to work on our house, etc…

We need to have breathing room in our lives.  We need to have some space between the pace we are running our lives at now, versus our limits.  Jared and I have been working on this for the past few weeks, adding new boundaries to our lives.  We no longer are allowed to be on our phones while ALSO watching TV.  We put our phones away within 30 minutes of finishing the work day so we can really be focusing on each other and talking with one another.  We don’t pull our phones out when we are at dinner with friends, or with each other.  Except for the Camera App (NOT Instagram) and to answer calls/texts.  Are you noticing a theme?  For us, our phones, aka Social Media Apps, are what keep us from having that breathing room.  We waste so much time on them, and it’s for nothing.  I want to challenge anyone reading, Christian or not, to really consider the breathing room in your life.  If you have some time, watch the series.  It’s WONDERFUL.  Truly.  Or, just watch the intro…it’s really funny!!

Anyone else have rules like this?  Are you successful in it? Have you been thinking about this, but not acted on it yet?

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Daffodils.

by Lauryn on April 19, 2013 in Highs & Lows,Personal

Its so hard to go about your usual day when there are tragedies happening left and right drenching our news coverage.  And, anniversaries of tragedies as well.  Our hearts are heavy.   I don’t really have the words to blog my usual highs and lows today.  I just want to post a pretty image, and remember that our God is faithful and good.

Lets pray for Boston.  And Texas.  And all the other countless things that are happening around the world.   Lets remember Tech.   And Oklahoma City.  And all the others, Im sure Im forgetting.

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Herbs in Pots.

by Lauryn on April 17, 2013 in Personal

Before Jared and I were married, I worked on an herb farm.  Its a local farm, Lavender Fields, and hands down it was one of my favorite jobs.  EVER.  I learned so much about gardening, and loads of crucial info on growing and sustaining herbs.  They can be really picky!  The way you are growing them (light, soil, water, etc..) can affect the way they taste, size of leaves, and if the herb will keep producing throughout the season.  I was able to work with my hands, get sweaty and dirty, and joke around with co-workers every day.   This kind of work isn’t everyones favorite, which I completely understand.  For me though, even 5+ years later, its something I crave and wish could be a part of my daily life.  Spring always gets me itching to get out in the yard and grow things.

I started some herbs in pots over the weekend and can’t wait to use them all summer long!

We got Sweet Basil, Rosemary, Oregano, and Sweet Banana Pepper.  We will probably have to repot, or completely transplant the Rosemary at some point because it grows and grows and grows! For now though, the pot will work just fine.  I’ve never grown Banana Peppers before, but I love them so much so I thought I would try!  I could eat them plain. :-)

I’ll leave you with two tips for your herbs… I see a lot of people letting their herbs get leggy.  Long and tall with the good stuff up towards the top, and nothing growing on the “legs”.  This isn’t ideal for herbs.  Instead, prune your herbs to create small little bushes.  And, lastly, don’t let your herbs flower.  Clip the flowers off as soon as you see them.  When a plant flowers, that becomes its main goal…spreading its seed and pollenating.  By pruning off the flowers, you keep the plants goal and goodness going to the leaves. :-)  This tip is specific to herbs where you mainly use the leaves, not for plants like Lavender where you encourage flowers to bloom.

Do you like growing things?  Or, do you prefer to get what you need at the market and grocery store?  What are you planting this year?  Tell me in the comments, I’d love to hear!

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Scotland: Part 3.

by Lauryn on March 28, 2013 in Personal

This is the last post on our trip to Scotland and it’s also the biggest!  Get ready!

We started the day at The Holyrood 9A for the Traditional Scottish Breakfast!

For those of you that do not know, there are some quirky parts to a Scottish Breakfast: the Black, or Blood, Pudding and Haggis.  Black Pudding is cooked, and then congealed, animal blood.  Haggis is ground up sheep innards.  Now, I know this may sound very strange to Americans because we dont typically eat these types of things except perhaps Giblet Gravy.  But Jared and I tasted both and we especially liked the Haggis.  Jared didnt like the Black Pudding at all, but I thought it was very tasty!  I couldn’t finish it just because I knew what it was. :-)  We ate up all the Haggis!  And, I have to say that those Potato Scones were so DELICIOUS.  We got extras.  Also, The Holyrood was so well done inside, we took a ton of pics!  Definitely go if you are in Edinburgh!

Meet Will, Jared’s beards nemesis across the world.

A Haggis Sandwich!

Our big breakfast filled us up for our next traditional thing, hiking Arthur’s Seat! See that hill in the distance?  That is *almost* the top! 

That is the fake summit below, that you saw in the picture above.  We had a pretty clear day and could see for miles! 

The artsy and modern building where their Parliament meets!  Also, Galloway in Scotland is like our Smith or Johnson here in the US.

Im really glad we were able to stop by The Elephant House!  This is where JK Rowling wrote some of the early Harry Potter novels.  I am a HUGE Harry Potter fan.  I started reading them in 7th grade when they came to the US and in college I was still one of those peeps that showed up at midnight to get my pre-ordered book and read as much as I could before I passed out the next morning.

The Elephant House has an AMAZING view of Edinburgh Castle!

Look!  A hairy coo!  Jared moves around a lot when I photograph him, so this is normally what I get…

We headed back to Jackie and Will’s flat for a while to rest before heading out for our last night in Edinburgh!  We took a ghost tour, prettttty creepy as we were under the city and in completely enclosed vaults from the late 1700′s, and then went to a pub to taste some whisky with their friends.

The end!  We had such a great trip and I can’t wait to go back the UK one day!  We will definitely be going back to Edinburgh at some point.  We loved it!

Now, I have to get sappy about Jackie and Will and say a huge THANK YOU!  We wouldn’t have been able to come over at all if it weren’t for these two.  They let us stay with them for free, and took off from work and school to spend the week with us.  They introduced us to all of their friends, took us to their church, and took us to so many amazing spots all over the city.  Basically, they made our trip what it was!  Completely self-less and unbelievable.  We love you guys so much, and can’t wait to see where God takes you!  Thank you, thank you, thank you.  You guys are amazing and we are blessed by your friendship.

That ends the Scotland recap!  I have some other images that might pop up here and there, or show up on Facebook, but I will let you know!  I hope you enjoyed it, I had a lot of fun revisiting it through the pictures!

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Scotland: Part 2.

by Lauryn on March 20, 2013 in Personal

Welcome to Day 4 of our trip! We had planned on taking a Hairy Coo Tour on Monday, but our payment wouldn’t go through online and it was sold out the morning of.  Even though we weren’t able to go, I would definitely recommend it to everyone because we got such good feedback about it, and the video looks really fun! One of the stops on the Hairy Coo is Stirling Castle, so we decided to take the train by ourselves, with Jackie and Will of course!  We didnt get to see some of the other parts of the Hairy Coo tour, but we had a really fun time at the castle alone! The views from the castle were amazing, and were made even better by sunshine and blue skys!

I really like Stirling a lot because it reminded me of a small mountain town. Edinburgh is a large city, so Stirling felt quaint and cute in comparison.

A lot of stone houses that we saw while riding trains around (Glasgow, Stirling) had the prettiest cobalt blue doors.  I decided that I would have one just like it one day.

This is the front entrance of the castle. The view from the highway and valley on the other side is much more impressive, but since we were on foot we weren’t able to get to that side.

Sunshine does not mean warm! :-)

Jared’s picture of me is way better than mine of him…

If we look a little bulky, dont worry, we were wearing about 5 layers each on every body area.

The unicorn is one of Scotland’s National Symbols.

Time to head back to Edinburgh!

Next up is the Scottish Breakfast, Arthur’s Seat and more! Stay tuned…

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Scotland: Part 1.

by Lauryn on March 18, 2013 in Personal

I have three posts on Scotland coming your way.  Today’s is from our first and third days there.  I have to tell you I probably only took 10 pictures the first day because I was so cranky, and had not dressed appropriately.

Second fun story to tell you.  You know, you’re going to Europe and you pick cute things to wear.  You’re thinking, yeah Im an American but Im going to dress cutely and be less obvious about it.  So you plan outfits.  What you forget to do is check the weather one. last. time.  The last time you checked, it was mid 40′s and somewhat sunny.  Okay thats great, kind of the same weather we’d been having in Richmond.  Then you arrive and the high is 35 degrees.  You end up wearing almost every article of clothing you brought EVERY DAY.  Two coats, three socks, 2 pants, 3 shirts, scarf, hat, and mittens. Because, its not just almost freezing, its also really windy and its raining a little.  Silly silly American.  However, it was true Scottish weather, so Im not sad about it.  Jared and I joked that we had not seen our toes in days when we got home!

Very first shot I took.  Not that great of a shot technically, but I was mesmerized.   Look at all that history.  

Hey, there is my cute ex-pat friend Jackie! 

First day ends with the St. Giles Cathedral on the left.  See?  Told you I didn’t take that many.  On our 2nd day there we saw traveled to Glasgow (the ‘w’ is silent by the way) to visit with Jared’s family and I completely failed at life by not taking a single picture.  For real, not even a family picture.  We started our 3rd day by going to church with Jackie and Will.  It was a really surreal feeling worshipping and hearing scripture with believers half a world away.  Afterwards we headed to Stockbridge Market.  Jackie and Will took us along Circus Lane (picture on the right) to get there.  New favorite street of life.  Seriously, it’s the cutest. 

We then headed to St. Vincent’s pub to watch a Rugby match.  England was playing Italy, so everyone in the pub was rooting for Italy.  Watch this hilarious, and really well done, video to help you understand more about UK relations. Rugby at the pub was exactly as I imagined it would be.  Funny songs, loads of teasing, and general merriment.  We even had some free meat pies the pub was offering.  Delish.

We ended the day with some of Jackie and Will’s friends at their flat for dinner.  Literally one of the best meals I’ve ever had.  Recipe is from The Best Ever Vegetarian Cookbook.  May I present to you: Vegetable Hot Pot with Cheese Biscuit Triangles.

Which brings us to Monday.  We headed to Stirling to see the castle and I will be sharing that next!  Some takeaways…

  • You will walk a lot.  We walked at a minimum of 2 miles a day, and at most around 6-7.  Wear comfy (and cute) shoes.
  • Dress weather appropriately.  If your body is used to 40-50 degree weather and you think 35 and below is doable, be sure to pack 10 extra sweaters and long johns.  Send your thank you card to Lauryn Galloway P.O Box 555 I Just Saved Your Tush From Frost Bite Lane, Your Welcome, Virginia 12345.
  • Dont try to visit important monuments on jet lag day.  Or, go back before you leave.
  • Make sure to invite me over when you make the Vegetable Hot Pot.
  • Edinburgh is pronounced Ed-in-bur-UH.   Interesting, no?

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We’re Here!

by Lauryn on March 7, 2013 in Personal

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We made it friends!

Oh gosh, I just cant believe we’re in Scotland! Time to pull on my wellies and get out there and enjoy it!

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Valentine.

by Lauryn on February 14, 2013 in Personal

“I want to know you moved and breathed in the same world with me.” ― F. Scott Fitzgerald, The Short Stories of F. Scott Fitzgerald

I think Valentine’s Day can be a pitfall for people thinking they aren’t doing the right things in life.  That somehow this self inflicted expectation carries more weight than the other happy and good things in life.   I like Valentine’s Day and I think its a fun thing to celebrate, no matter where you are in life.    Celebrate the little loves in your life.  Celebrate the love that comes from a gracious and just God.  Celebrate the love that comes from furry pets.  Celebrate the love that comes from independence and peace.  Don’t let today be a downer.

Love all of you out there!! :-) Happy Valentine’s Day!!

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Meal Planning.

by Lauryn on February 6, 2013 in From the Kitchen,Personal

This has been a long requested post!  I really love making food for family and friends and because I also love organizing, meal planning is something else I enjoy!  Some of my friends and a few readers have asked for a post on how I meal plan.  I hemmed and hawed over this post.  How to write it, how to make it clear this is what works FOR US, how to not make other people out there feel like failures because they hate meal planning, etc…  Let me make it very clear: this is what I enjoy.  I love organizing.  I like cooking.  It is completely okay if you dont.  Dont beat yourself up.  Dont feel guilty about it.  Add it to your list of things you dont do, and forget about it.  Also, this is just how WE do it.  There are so many ways out there to figure out meals.  This is not a be all end all type of post. :-)

Let’s get started!

I use these nifty pads that I have found at Pier One but have seen lots of places to make a grocery list.  We go once a week on average.  I really like fresh salad and I dont like going to the store every day, so once a week is a good amount of time for us.  We also happen to only be a 25 minute drive from our favorite store.  Im sure I would go less often if I lived in a more rural area.

Next I grab a cook book or two.  My favorite cook books of ALL TIME are by Southern Living.  Each year they publish a book with all the recipes from all the monthly magazines.  I like SL because the recipe’s are all delicious, not everything is required to be made from scratch, and the books are organized super well.  The index’s in the back are lifesavers.  Most cook books are organized by month. This makes eating seasonly, or somewhat seasonally, very easy.  Whatever month it is, flip to the month before or after and peruse.   I like other books too, but I cook mostly out of Southern Living.

Making new recipes is a really fun adventure for me, so I make a goal to try 3 new recipes a week.  Sometimes it doesn’t happen that way, but I try.  I also always ask Jared if he is in the mood for anything.  Sometimes he isn’t and leaves it up to me, but he also mentions tacos, chili, shepherd’s pie, etc… often.  We have a good rotation of staples if I am stumped, or I dont feel like trying.

I make 4 meals a week.  We have leftovers 2 days a week.  We have pizza or a pre-made frozen meal from Trader Joe’s once a week. We like leftovers.  If you don’t, be sure to adjust your recipe measurements and shop accordingly.

I go through the books and pick 2-4 recipes.  Depending on how many I pick, I fill in with staple meals.  As I am picking recipes I am also making the grocery list.  I mark off whatever we dont have.  What’s nice about the little pads is that you can mark off as you run out of things throughout the week as well.

Here is what we had this week:

  • Friday: Stuffed Peppers from Big Night In
  • Saturday: Crock Pot Sour Cream Ranch Chicken with Salads (A friend told me this recipe, I can share another time if people are interested!)
  • Sunday: SUPER BOWL!!
  • Monday: Smoky Ham and Corn Chowder with Kale from Big Night In
  • Tuesday: Leftovers
  • Wednesday: Baked Tempeh with Broccoli
  • Thursday: Leftovers

So that’s 3 new meals (Fri, Mon, Wed), 2 Leftover Days, 1 Staple Meal (Sat) and then the Superbowl (finger foods!)

I somewhat subscribe to the 1 Protein, 1 Starch, Lots of Veggies theory. I do make sure there are veggies with every meal. We mostly do sandwiches or more leftovers for lunch. For breakfast, its cereal, yogurt and granola, and green smoothies.  After I mark off what we need for dinners, I go through and mark off what we need for lunch, snacks, and breakfast.  For example: Yogurt, Spinach, Frozen Mango, Oranges, Bananas, Chips and Salsa, 2 boxes of Cereal, etc…

We only do a week at a time because plans change and I dont want food to go bad.  This process works really well for us.  Go through the cook book, pick out some recipes that sound good, as I am doing that write up the grocery list, and shop.  I’ve tried to keep it as simple as possible and as relaxed as possible.

The last thing I do is write on our white board, that is on our fridge, what we will be having each day of the week.  It looks just like the bullet list above.  I scratch out each meal when I make it. Everything goes smoothly if I make what I am supposed to each day.  And nothing goes bad. :-)

How do you meal plan?  Do you like trying new recipes, or do you hate cooking?  I’d love to hear about it!!

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